This article is writen in response to Gilbert Goh blog incorrigible post on ... click here to read his...
Dear Gilbert Goh...I was reading your blog post...basically it wasted 10mins of my time to read and understand the post...well your intention was not in the what you have mention in the title why local girls dont go for local guys but it is a post aiming at condemning foreigners working in Singapore or the so called FT..correct me if im wrong..by the way...during is spelled as D-U-R-I-N-G and not D-U-R-I-B-G...well let me introduce something interesting as spelling check..where it can help even F9 english student like yours truly....ME to spell well...
Dear Gilbert Goh...I was reading your blog post...basically it wasted 10mins of my time to read and understand the post...well your intention was not in the what you have mention in the title why local girls dont go for local guys but it is a post aiming at condemning foreigners working in Singapore or the so called FT..correct me if im wrong..by the way...during is spelled as D-U-R-I-N-G and not D-U-R-I-B-G...well let me introduce something interesting as spelling check..where it can help even F9 english student like yours truly....ME to spell well...
Next, I read 3 times to kind of understand what you want tried to bring across better structure on your sentencing ok..anyway your content on your male local guys unable into a relationship..even thot they tried looking...looking at what? Porn? Be specific in what you trying to bring across..ok enough of trying to be an English police here...now more towards your comments...your friend unable to get into relationship...you put the blame on work...but is it the real problem? You mention that they are working on dead end jobs like taxi driver or selling insurance...or some daily rated job...so have they tried upgrading their skills..? And with the foreign influx how does it affect the wages..? Enlighten me and yes I do agree that with more foreigner talent it does make the job a bit more competitive but with a little obstacles you start to complain you start to whine about it..you basically just sit down on the spot and said it is all their fault they hire more FT then deprive me of promotion and yada yada...and act like a spoilt brat..now..here is point number 1 why Singaporean girls dont go for Singaporean guys..immature..got problems blame others...what about themselves?
Now point number 2...Singapore a money country? Wait money where I dont see them...oooo...wait wait let me put 5 dollars on the floor n stand on it...done..ok..now im in money country...yeah..ooo wait are you trying to say materialistic? Gosh gosh...im so sorry...let me keep my 5 dollars first..done..well..you are saying that local girls are materialistic but arent the men too? Let me ask you...ifyou can afford would you go for iphone or 7-11 phone? Cherry QQ or BMW 6 series? G2000 shirt or some pasar malam shirt? Guess you will choose iphone..BMW and G2000...am I right? So dont call be a pot calling the kettle black....
Next you mention that we dont earn enough without proper education...well i agree to a certain extent that our education system may not be fantastic but let me enlighten you that i have tonnes of friends who go through local education and they are high flying in their career....was it necessary to go to university..? Anyway that is not the point you claimed that 23% of primary school cohort go to university...wait which year and which cohort..where you get the stats from..? And let me educate you a little tertiary education include polytechnic which we had 5..and even ITE and on top of that we have many private education like kaplan, mdis and many more..providing university education...so come on before you say we arent given opportunity to study...
I have a friend who go to a local neighbourhood primary school to local neighbourhood secondary school...local institution (3years to A Level)....not Junior Collage...never go to University...yet he is earning more then most undergrads who had gone to overseas university...and yes...he is selling insurance that you kind of condemned...by the way he is getting married at the end of the year to a LOCAL GIRL...so..how did he do it..? Hard-working and positive mind set..and it just sum up to 1 word....ATTITUDE...if you have a good attitude..you can achieve a lot but if you choose to whine like a spoilt brat so be it...Overseas education maybe more well balanced then ours but is grass really greener on the other side?
You claim that all ang moh speak perfect English..and they can hold their conversation...hey dude that is stereotyping....let me educate you a little....i can speak to anyone...any moment...and speak about anything under the sun..why..? Read more...be aware of situation around you...gain more general knowledge on things...sports, information technology, showbiz, politics...if you realised most Singaporean guys nowadays only talk about....NS, Soccer, girls...and let see...that about it...thus unable to hold solid conversation...they have to start to recognize these problems...n being a gentleman....it is something we need to learn...it starts from the family...
So..u felt intimidated when a women come to pick you up in a car while on a date...hmm...are you a MCP..? Wait do you understand that...? Let me break it up for you...means you are a Male Chauvinist Pig. Do i feel any lesser then the women who are better educated then me..? No..! By the way im armed with only a diploma..not degree..so how do i hold myself among them...? It is call confidence...you are your greatest discourager..you tell yourself...you can do it and you will do it..the seed of fear...so what does fear means..? Fear means false evidence appearing really..so why do you de-value yourself just because you are not highly educated..? Not from an overseas universtiy..? So what..? You are who you are..you are made different from the person next to you..so why compare..? The more you compare arent you are suck into the vicious cycle of life...? Money is never enough..be contented with what you have...if you want to get more...upgrade..upgrading of skills..invest time and put in effort if you think you cant make it...instead of whining...take that time to upgrade and read more...educate yourself..
Getting married..well many local guys have problems..and what is it..? Small social circle...so how.? Dare not step out of the turtle shell..because why low self esteem...dare not go for speed dating...dare not go to dating programmes..come on there are many programmes out there to help singles expand their social circle even there are tonnes of handphone apps like Okcupid, paktor, and a few more to help singles to get to know others....then here comes another problem...eee..they not pretty...not the kind of girls i am looking for...the true is...we are too shallow...men nowadays cant look passed looks...thinking looks is everything..what matters most is what you have inside..character, values, Point number 3...you are who you are...no one can de-value you..only yourself...so chest up look straight and display some confidence in yourself...
End of the day you complain n whine...problems still there..? Yes! Does it go away? No! Instead of sitting on the floor and drag out your keyboard to be a keyboard warrior but tried doing something more constructive? Like ask yourself the question..what do that guy have and I do not have..? And work on it? With this kind of spoilt brat attitude you will not get any girls...lets watch a video...
See? Pastor Nick is someone who was born without limbs...did he let his disability stop him from starting a family? No! So are you any lesser then him? No! If your intention is for Singaporean guys to get attached and such STOP PLANTING SEED OF FEAR IN THEM...by presenting false evidence here...and starts by showing how they can improve themselves...
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